I really didn't want to be Jimmy. I don't feel like a Jimmy. That's when it hit me. I could be James. I mean, I am James; I have been all along. Its my birth name, I just never went by it.
Now, its always a bit easier to change your name when you are going through a big life change, like moving to a new town. I unfortunately was still "Jimmy" when I first moved here, and I am not contemplating leaving the city.
So I first decided to implicate the name change at work. And why not? It is where I spend the majority of my time. I just began telling people in person about the change. Some embraced it, but many were confused. I learned that even I was confused. Its hard to even get yourself in a routine of thinking as a new name, and responding to it.
As time has moved on, James has become pretty common at work. People are transitioning into it. It has manifested itself into other names such as Jimmy James, James Michael or JM.
James rolls off the tongue a little nicer. Sounds a bit more professional. James has a higher level of expectation.
I changed my name to James.
James-Can I change my name to Shaniqua?
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